A Staycation to Remember: A Rollercoaster of Emotions and a Path to Healing
Original post from February 25, 2019
We had planned a low-key staycation for February break last week—a time to unwind, relax, and enjoy some of our favorite things. We envisioned days filled with skiing, cozy movie nights, and indulging in our go-to pizza deliveries. It was shaping up to be the perfect family time. But, as life often does, our plans took an unexpected turn in the blink of an eye.
My oldest son, Nolan, took a fall while skiing and fractured two vertebrae in his back. That moment, when I saw him on the ground and realized something was wrong, was the scariest experience of my life as a mother. I wouldn’t wish that fear on anyone, and I pray I never have to go through anything like it again.
Waiting those agonizing 25 minutes at the bottom of the hill for ski patrol to bring my baby down on a toboggan felt like an eternity. Then came the 30-minute ambulance ride, which felt like hours, followed by a grueling 10 hours in the pediatric emergency room. There were X-rays, MRIs, and a barrage of questions, all while trying to keep it together for Nolan. I can’t even begin to imagine how terrifying it was for him.
Not an image you want to see as a parent.
Since that day, our focus has shifted to Nolan’s healing—a process that’s been tough for all of us, but especially for him. He’s had to face the reality that he needs to slow down and give his body the time it needs to recover, and that’s a hard lesson to learn at any age, let alone when you’re young and full of energy. Three months of no activity: no skiing, no basketball, no baseball—not even gym or recess. And then there’s the “super dorky” neck brace (his words, not mine). I’ve tried to spin it as something cool, but let’s be real, he’s not convinced.
As this week brings a return to school for Nolan, it’s not exactly the fresh start we were hoping for, but it’s a step forward nonetheless. I’m doing everything I can to help him focus on the positives. We’re diving into more books and rediscovering our love for board games since video games are off-limits during the week. If anyone has any fun suggestions, we’re all ears!
One silver lining in all of this? Nolan can still go fishing—a sport that doesn’t require much movement. I have to admit, fishing isn’t my favorite activity, but I’d do anything for this kid. So, it looks like we’ll be casting some lines soon. Fish on! That’s the saying, right?
I’m looking forward to sharing happier news in my next post—something I’m really excited about: a special feature in a gorgeous local magazine. I can’t wait to share it with all of you.
In the meantime, stay safe out there and hug your loved ones a little tighter tonight.
With love,
Annie xo